I spend last weekend in New Jersey with family celebrating my Grandma’s 90th birthday. When I arrived, I met Buddy, my cousin’s dog. I had always heard about Buddy, but was speechless when I walked in the house and saw Buddy for the first time. Buddy is suppose to weigh between 60-70 pounds and currently weighs in at 150 pounds. In people terms he would be classified as “morbidly obese”.
Granted Buddy is an older dog, it is was painful to watch him stand on all four legs and move around the house. It was obvious he preferred to spend the day laying around, watching the football games with my relatives and sleeping. Who would blame him when he has to move so much added weight? Carrying an additional 90 pounds around all day would slow the most conditioned athlete down to a shuffle. The entire family talked openly about Buddy’s weight problem and I was told Buddy loves Jersey bagels. Jersey bagels are amazing, but shouldn’t be eaten daily and certainly not as dog food.
The thing that struck me the most was realizing how much my cousin loves his dog. He would do anything to care for Buddy, however some of the very things he’s doing out of love are causing him to have a shorter life. I challenged my cousin to get Buddy moving and the next time I visited I wanted to see slimmer Buddy and not a “stuffed Buddy”. My wish for Buddy would be to give him the opportunity to do the things dogs love must—taking long walks, running, and chasing tennis balls.
Oftentimes we show love for our children, friends and spouses by preparing huge unhealthy meals. I challenge you to show your love in healthy ways that will keep the people you love most around for years to come.





